Counselling For Teens and Adolescents
Support for Teens. Help for Families.
Being a teen today is hard, and parenting teens can be just as challenging. Between school pressure, social stress, identity development, family expectations, and navigating an increasingly digitial world, it's no surprise many teens are struggling. At Five Star Wellbeing, we offer therapy that’s welcoming, emotionally safe, and grounded the science of attachment.
A Welcoming, Private Location
Our private counselling office is located on a quiet property in Greenwich, Nova Scotia, surrounded by 70-year-old willow trees overlooking a peaceful pond. This calming, natural environment helps teens feel more at ease and free from the distractions and pressures of everyday life.
Most teens worry that seeing a therapist might mean there's something wrong with them. Working with us, they understand that their problems and challenges are normal. They are not a medical condition to be solved, they are young people learning to navigate a complex world.
Whether teens prefer to talk indoors or take a quiet walk around the pond before or after a session, this space creates room to breathe, reflect, grow and heal.
Teen Mental Health Facts
- 1 in 4 youth (12–19) experience a mental health challenge before adulthood.
- 70% of mental health issues begin during childhood or adolescence
- Among youth aged 16–21, those rating their mental health as “fair” or “poor” doubled from 12% in 2019 to 26% in 2023.
- In Ontario, about 17% of high-schoolers report high levels of anxiety and depression; 39% show moderate-to-serious distress
- 2–8% of adolescents experience major depressive disorder; roughly 2% of children, and up to 8% of teens
- 2SLGBTQ+ youth face higher mental health risks including, anxiety, depression and suicidal ideation.
Common Reasons Teens Come to Counselling
- Anxiety and worry
- Low mood, lack of motivation, or withdrawal
- Emotional outbursts or shutdowns
- School avoidance and academic stress
- Family conflict and communication struggles
- Peer pressure, bullying, and social isolation
- Identity exploration, including LGBTQ+ support
- Low self-esteem and body image concerns
- Coping with divorce, loss, or major changes
- Risky behaviours, self-harm, or thoughts of hopelessness
Signs a Teen May Need Counselling
Mood Changes
- Persistent sadness, irritability, or mood swings
- Frequent tearfulness or emotional numbness
- Feelings of hopelessness or low self-worth
- Increased anxiety, panic, or restlessness
- Feeling overwhelmed by everyday situations
Behavioral Changes
- Withdrawing from friends, family, or usual activities
- Avoidance of school or sudden drop in academic performance
- Increased anger, defiance, or risk-taking behaviour
Cognitive Signs
- Difficulty concentrating, focusing, or making decisions
- Negative self-talk or frequent self-criticism
- Obsessive thoughts or compulsive behaviours
- Expressing feelings of being a burden, unwanted, or invisible
Social & Identity Concerns
- Trouble forming or maintaining friendships
- Bullying (being bullied or bullying others)
- Conflicts with family members or teachers
- Questions or struggles related to gender identity or sexual orientation
- Feeling isolated, misunderstood, or like they don’t belong
Signs of Distress or Crisis
- Expressions of self-harm or suicidal thoughts
- Signs of self-injury
- Talking about death, dying, or not wanting to be alive
- Use of substances to cope (alcohol, cannabis, or other substances etc.)
How Therapy Can Help
We support all teens, particularly those who may be participating in high-risk behaviours, be suffering from depression, loss, anxiety or trauma, as well as youth experiencing neurodiversity or complex family circumstances. We use Emotionally Focused Individual or Family Therapy as well as behavioural interventions to create a space for growth.
Therapy can help your teen:
- Understand and regulate emotions
- Build confidence, boundaries, and self-awareness
- Improve communication with family and peers
- Learn tools to manage stress and anxiety
- Feel supported and accepted, just as they are
We offer counselling that is:
- Teen-centered and developmentally appropriate
- Inclusive and welcoming (including LGBTQ+ youth)
- Relational, trauma-informed, and emotionally safe
- Practical and grounded in evidence-based practices
What Teens Say After Counselling
“I didn’t think I’d like talking to someone, but it feels good to have a space just for me.”
“I feel like I understand myself better.”
“It helped just knowing someone wasn’t judging me.”
Start with a Conversation
Counselling is more effective before a crisis. If your teen is showing concerning behaviour or signs of distress, or if you simply want them to have a safe space to talk, we’re here to help.
How to Talk to Your Teen about Counselling
Here are a few ways to talk to your teen about counselling:
- “I’ve noticed things seem a bit heavy for you lately, I wonder if it might help to talk to someone outside the family?”
- “You don’t have to go through this alone. A therapist could be someone on your side, with no pressure or judgment.”
- “I know things have been tough lately. If talking to me/us feels hard, maybe a counsellor could give you a space to figure some things out.”
- “It’s totally normal to feel overwhelmed sometimes. Do you think talking to someone with experience helping young people might be helpful?
- This feels like a big decision, do you think a counsellor might help you walk through your options or have some strategies to deal with the difficult emotions?
If you think your teen needs help, but resists the idea of therapy, read this article on How to Help Your Child When They Refuse Your Help.